I am a hypocrite :(

I didn't say that x:

No, not you, sweetie-dahling. You've been very kind to me about it all and made me crack the first smile of my day, in fact (for which I should thank you)

What smile? D:

You made me smile cause you posted the first comment I ever got! And most of all comments i've gotten and and and you said an entry of mine was lovely so yes, I smiled. I'm easy to please. Like most monkeys, tell me something nice about myself and it makes my day

don't stop posting your pretty mind-spam.

You are a nice monkey

*Pats*

it's easy to say blogs are silly and spammy and useless and no one reads them and I don't care if anyone does anyway, neener, I'm too cool for blogs and they don't affect me /shell on.

Course when that one person who you really hope *is* interested in your innermost thoughts, as random and silly as they might be says "no, I don't need a link to your blog, I hate blogs, it's just you talking to yourself, yeah" you play it off all cool like "hahah yeah they're silly, I know!" and then slink off somewhere to nurse the proverbial wounds. What a big baby I am.

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Yes, I know exactly what you mean... it's not blogs in my case but it is my inner thoughts...

I'm putting this under my quotes, on another site

You are a very sweet lady & I'm glad I found your blog!

aww cute thats why we should all be nice aww (your all nice)

Oh, I love when people try to fester conversations with their perception of blogs as an outdated effeminate (as if this was some thing negative) form of diary that erodes everything that is unique about the person posting.

Why? Because the uniqueness is amplified in a blog, unlike a diary, where it is preserved and at best it evolves at a much slower pace than it would online.

Soul-searching I tell you, is what makes arrogant people like me stable. It is what makes selfless people confident that they are not insecure. It is what makes the person who is uncertain about themselves think "you know what, I am not really that bad", and that is all that matters. The ability to reflect fights the desire to be sanctimonious when we are offended for appearing as such. It keeps you down-to-Earth, and a wonderful person, because it gives you balance.

I know this comes off as an order, and that is because I ramble, but I give you my advice on it: This is a good ability to have. If you reflect even only once a week then you are still reflecting on that week, its purpose and achievements you have made, or whatever you seek to accomplish in it. For a disorganised person like me, it is an administrative advice. It helps me tell right from wrong.

I assume that this second nature of reflection is different for every person because we are all so different, so its effect on us concerns our self-perceived weaknesses, and those can vary from person to person. I think it is the most helpful thing I can do with my mind, second to cheering myself up when I am down.

So really, soul-searching is a good thing. As is reflecting.

Whatever you post, it will be yours, and that is why we read it. We are interested in you.